Sunday, June 12, 2016

[qupzduyt] Best case scenario boundaries

Everyone has sexual boundaries (this is knowingly an incorrect assumption) that vary case-by-case, depending on some characteristics of the person being interacted with.  Then, consider a person's most permissive boundary, the best case scenario, for a class of interactions, for example, hook-ups with people one has just met.

Do people differ significantly among where their most permissive boundary is?  Or is everyone boringly the same, anything goes, in the best case scenario?  If people differ, what causes the difference?  Presumably some social indoctrination mechanism, the details of which we seek.

"I pledge to be monogamous to you, except for the following list of celebrities..."

Of course, the other critical question is, what characteristics of the other person cause someone's boundaries to be more restrictive than their best-case-scenario boundary?

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